For over 30 years I have researched the best tools to guide you in your spiritual journey. From training, to books to practices and more. 

Celebration Of Discipline

This was the first book I read on the topic of spiritual formation years ago, and it gave me a desire to know more about how God changes us. Hailed by many as the best modern book on Christian spirituality, Celebration of Discipline explores the classic disciplines, or central spiritual practices, of the Christian faith. The disciplines cover the inward, the outward, and the corporate dimensions of spiritual formation. Along the way, Foster shows that it is through these practices that the true path to spiritual growth can be found.

The Critical Journey

I continually refer to this book and gain something each time I do. The Critical Journey is a description of the spiritual journey. Faith develops over a lifetime through equally important stages. The authors have identified 6 stages: awareness of God, learning about God, serving God, the inward journey, the outward journey, and the life of love. This is an excellent resource for the reader and also for those who are spiritual mentors to others. One of the most helpful sections is what happens in the inward journey and the wall, a stage that churches often don’t understand. This book will significantly increase your understanding of where you are in your spiritual formation, ways you might get stuck, what practices enhance the experience of that stage, and suggestions for how to move to the next stage.

In the Name of Jesus

I read this book every year; it stirs me to examine the spiritual formation of my leadership. Nouwen deals with the temptations of leadership and suggests a Christ-centered solution. In this small book (81 pages) Nouwen tackles three temptations faced, but all too often not acknowledged, by Christian leaders: (1) the temptation to be relevant, (2) the temptation to be spectacular, and (3) the temptation to be powerful. Reflections on the life of Christ encourage the Christian leader to reflect on these temptations and so increase his/her desire to be more like Christ by leading in the opposite spirit. There is no better book on leadership.


This is a powerful book that introduces a variety of ways to pray. Many re-read this book to discover new and fresh ideas of prayer. I keep going back to it because it takes years to practice all the types of prayer explained in this book. When I was going through a particularly dark period of my life, I found Foster’s chapter on “The Prayer of the Forsaken” especially healing. Foster writes in a warm, compelling manner, and I find myself drawn to explore the various prayers he describes. As a result I have enriched my prayers and by them enriched my relationship with God and others.

Spiritual Disciplines Handbook

This book is a bit more modern than Richard Foster’s book. For example, it includes the non-traditional discipline of “unplugging.” (That’s right. Go a day or two without the phone, television, iPod, internet, etc). The author divides the book into seven areas of Christian growth and suggests a total of 63 practices that cover seven areas: Worship, Opening to God, Relinquishing the false self, Sharing life with others, Hearing God’s word, Incarnating Christ’s love, and Prayer. Notice that each area spells out the acronym WORSHIP. For each practice, the author gives a description of it, scripture passages that pertain to it, reflection questions, and suggested spiritual exercises. There is something for everybody at any time on their spiritual journey.

Invitation to a Journey

This is a standard work on the subject and has, for good reason, been very influential among evangelicals in any discussion of the topic. If you want to introduce someone to the topic of spiritual formation, do it with this book. Mulholland defines spiritual formation as “the process of being conformed to the image of Christ for the sake of others” (pg. 12). The “for the sake of others” provides a kind of focal point for much of what the book has to say about being conformed. Second is Mulholland’s emphasis on the need for believers to be conformed in areas of their lives where they are most unlike Christ. A particularly helpful section identifies our personality types, what this brings to our spiritual formation, and identifies areas where we get stuck if we are unwilling to move forward into less comfortable areas of spiritual formation. For example, I am more contemplative by nature. I knew – and this book confirmed it – that in order for me to grow I had to develop my “shadow side” by choosing activities that encourage obedience and not understanding.

A Testament of Devotion

I read this for a graduate course and forever thanked my professor for introducing our class to this Quaker scholar and pastor. I literally prayed my way through this book, meditating slowly on ideas both strange yet somehow achingly familiar as they called out longings deep within me. Kelly assures us that we can attend to God’s voice while, at the same time, we are doing something else. He confronts our fragmented selves – “the committee of selves” as he called it – the civic self, the parent self, the professional self, and so on — who forever pull on us to meet all our obligations, each self putting more pressure on the other selves to outdo each other. “Enough!” says Kelly. “Simplify!” says Kelly. “Live life from an unhurried Divine Center.” If there’s a book for busy 21st century Christians – and more importantly, who long for something else — this is it.

When the Well Runs Dry

I picked up this book at a sidewalk sale in Sugarland, Texas at a point when I was discouraged by my prayer life and wondering how I could grow in intimacy with God. The author, a Jesuit missionary in the Philippines, explained that God’s purpose during these dry spells is to move us from knowing to loving and then from loving to truly loving. Intrigued by Green’s description of prayer as “an encounter with God in love,” I explored prayer as a way of being with God, not just talking to Him. It is hard to be still; even now I fight against the temptation to believe I am wasting my time. But without this desire to be with God in silent listening until one knows he or she is loved, prayer becomes a one-way conversation with oneself.

Sacred Companions

We need companions on our spiritual journey. My own life testifies to this. Benner calls this “the gift of hospitality:” being truly present to another person. As I read this book slowly over a few days by Lake Dillon in Colorado, I realized that God had given me friends to assist me in becoming a “great lover,” the goal of spiritual formation. I have a long way to go to make that reality, but my friends and those who give me spiritual direction help me discern what I am experiencing of and with God, who Jesus is; what God is saying to me through Scripture, daily life, and even my dreams; and ways I am resisting or cooperating with God.

The Examen Prayer

In 2008 I went on a silent retreat to a Benedictine monastery. Until then, I had prayed the prayer of examen on almost a daily basis. It wasn’t until I found this book at that retreat that I learned what this prayer is really about. It is such a simple prayer, really, that helps us review our day with gratitude, examine our feelings and thoughts, and to discern where we are moving closer to God or further away from Him. Discernment is key to spiritual growth, and the prayer of examen builds the daily practice of discernment. I am profoundly grateful for Ignatius, who formalized the prayer – though he wasn’t the first one to do it – and to God Himself, who awakened a desire in me to pray the prayer of examen long before I knew what it was.